We all make mistakes and accidentally hurt our loved ones from time to time in interpersonal relationships. We will call these mis-attunements. The hallmark of healthy, securely attached people is that they can re-attune relatively easily. In fact, it is in the RE-attunement that we most strongly bond to each other. Being unafraid of making mistakes, yet catching ourselves when we do and skillfully navigating the de-brief and apology and understanding makes for healthy, secure relationships. No more walking on eggshells. Thank God.